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      <image:title>My Approach - NARRATIVE THERAPY</image:title>
      <image:caption>We are constantly making meaning of our experiences, and often times, the narratives we make about ourselves, others, and the world are unhelpful to living a happy life. Lots of these problems narratives are a result of societal dominant discourses. In the therapy room, it is my goal to support you in deconstructing some of these taken for granted messages and explore your values and strengths so that you can do life based on your own definitions of happiness.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>My Approach</image:title>
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      <image:title>My Approach - EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and reprocessing)</image:title>
      <image:caption>Do you feel stuck reliving painful memories from your past? Is your mind constantly spinning with unhelpful narratives about yourself? I use EMDR (a therapy mixing talking and eye movements) to help clients get unstuck by desensitizing past memories, present triggers, and providing a path towards building a better future. Instead of drowning in negative thoughts, my clients end up feeling like they can swim above their memories.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.trueselvestherapy.com/blog/2019/2/13/true</loc>
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    <lastmod>2019-02-19</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Subscribe - I offer a free 15 minute consultation to make sure we are the right fit!</image:title>
      <image:caption>My fee is $250 per 50 minute session. I can provide “superbills” if your insurance covers out-of-network therapy (most PPOs). I also accept FSA cards, and services are generally accepted for HSAs. Call 760-717-0617 or message me below. Currently telehealth only.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2019-01-17</lastmod>
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    <lastmod>2020-03-21</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Services - Couples therapy</image:title>
      <image:caption>Being in a relationship can be a rewarding experience full of growth and self-discovery, AND it takes work! Thanks to the usual culprits (old school Disney, fairy tales, novelas), we get this idea that committing to another person should be as easy as laying down in a glass coffin waiting to be kissed to ride off into the distance together. The reality is that we all could use a little help to be better partners. Whether you are a new couple, engaged, married, entering parenthood for the first time, seasoned parents, monogamous, non-monogamous, heterosexual, or same-sex, or anywhere else in the relationship spectrum, I am here to help. I can support your partnership through: - Learning and practicing communication skills -Healing from past relational wounds, including affairs -Setting goals for the future to live intentionally -Mediating difficult conversations (spirituality, finances, marriage, kids) -Co-parenting -Learning how to avoid codependency -Becoming better supporters of each other</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Services - 20-30 ish individual therapy</image:title>
      <image:caption>Managing personal wellbeing, relationships, friendships, parenthood, family, finances, and careers, is a lot for anybody to tackle. To this mix, add battling with trauma, societal pressures and judgements, sexism, racism, classism, all the other “isms”, along with holding environmental and political concerns., and phew! I hear ya, it’s a challenge. This challenge can bring forth fear, insecurity, loneliness, and overall lots of anxiety. On the other hand, doing this “adult thing” with intentionality is also an opportunity for self discovery and growth, that I’m happy to support you through. Through therapy, we can work together to identify the preferred and unpreferred patterns in your life, so that you can live the life you want. I will offer skill coaching and information but we will mostly find solutions through exploring your own knowledge, experiences, and strengths. Our conversations will help you increase insight about yourself, and improve self-care, decision-making and problem solving. We will begin building the blue print of the “you” that you envision, while learning to celebrate the “you” you are now. These are some areas I can help with: · Anxiety · Depression · Career · Strengthening boundaries · Life stage transitions · Improving communication with loved ones · Creating healthy habits · Process trauma</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>My name is Mariana Brunnett-Lazarte (She/Her) and I’m a Marriage and Family Therapist. You are in the right place if you: -Can’t seem to turn off self-criticism and self-doubt. -Know “logically” that you are worthy and enough, but your body and emotions can’t seem to catch up. -Feel “not good enough” for not meeting societal expectations, which you know are made up and oppressive. -Feel tired, tense, and on edge (cue to take a breath and unclench your jaw). -Are stuck in unfulfilling relationships and situations -Ruminate on interactions you’ve had, nitpicking your behavior, wondering what others think about you -Struggle with setting boundaries because you rather avoid confrontation and are fearful people will leave you -Feel stressed about the challenges of a new day</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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